Why Be Ordinary When You Can Have Your Signature?

November 17, 2025

Welcome to another beautiful week. When an idea sparks that I think is worth sharing, it becomes this weekly newsletter. If something hits home, write back. I love conversations. This is Weekly Spark #26.

Let me start with a simple truth: You are born with a pattern that no one else has.

A thumbprint.

A voice.

A rhythm.

Even that hurried scribble at the end of your email that says PFA, your signature, is uniquely yours.

And yet...

Most of us live templated lives.

We work like everyone else.

We speak like everyone else.

We even dream inside the same safe boundaries.

💡 Somewhere Between Fitting In and Growing Up

…we lost our originality.

We stopped expressing.

We started seeking validation.

We traded authenticity for approval.

And somewhere along the way, our signature… that messy, beautiful mark of individuality… began to fade.

But here’s the truth:

Your uniqueness is your story in motion.

It’s your way of saying, “I was here. I mattered. I left a mark.”

Every time you hold back an idea to please the room,

you erase a line from that signature.

🌱 The Goal Isn’t Perfection

It’s distinction.

It’s about bringing your flavour, your truth, your weirdness. Fully alive.

Because nobody remembers the photocopy.

They remember the original.

The starting point of doing this work is pausing and asking yourself…

Who am I? It is the shortest and the hardest question you will ever ask.

Be honest with yourself. Leave your professional background, the relationships you

have and even the education you proudly show on the wall and then tell yourself…

1. What puts you in a state of flow?

2. What are you scared of?

3. What gives you true joy?

4. What ignites your spark?

That’s the heart of my work, helping coachees, founders, and organisations rediscover their signature self.

When people reconnect with their essence, everything changes:

⚡️ Their energy shifts.

⚡️ Their voice strengthens.

⚡️ Their work starts to feel like theirs again.

And when teams do it… innovation soars, trust deepens, and culture becomes real.

A Small Step to Reclaim Your Signature

On Dec 12 at 12 PM Melbourne time, I’m leading a 90-minute masterclass,

“Unapologetically You.”

It’s for those tired of living the default version of themselves.

For those ready to reclaim their signature… in work, life, and impact.

If that stirs something inside you, come join me.

Because your signature isn’t what you write.

It’s how you live.

👉 Save your spot. Be remembered for being you.

With courage and clarity,

Utkarsh

(Coach | Founder, IgnitedNeurons | Believer in Authentic Impact)